Category Archives: Grace
The Best Gift to Give at Christmas
Are you hurting, as Christmas draws near?
Is there pain in your heart because of what someone did?
Has someone let you down, hurt your feelings,
confused you,
abused you,
not met your expectations?
Is there anger you can’t let go of?
Resentment seething in your soul?
Are you struggling with bitterness from long ago?
Christmas makes it possible for us to be set free.
Jesus came.
He lived a perfect life.
He died to pay for all sin.
He rose again conquering death.
He forgives us of every wrong thought and action.
Because of Him, we can forgive others as He has forgiven us.
My prayer this Christmas is that forgiveness
would be the gift we give to each other.
Heavenly Father,
Thank you for the best gift ever given:
Your Son coming to earth to save our souls
and forgive our sins.
I pray you will help us this Christmas
to give each other the gift of forgiveness.
By your grace, may we:
forgive those who have let us down,
forgive the one who has hurt us,
forgive those who never quite live up to our expectations,
forgive the thoughtless words and deeds of our loved ones,
as you have forgiven our own thoughtless words and deeds.
Father let forgiveness be the first and best gift we offer
to each one in our lives today.
I pray in the name of our Lord Jesus that you
will help us let go of anger, resentment, and bitterness.
May each soul be filled with your grace.
May your peace fill each heart.
Open our eyes to see all you have forgiven
us, then help us to give that same forgiveness to others.
Help me, Lord, to forgive, never forgetting
how you have forgiven me.
Your love sets our hearts free.
Praise Your holy name!
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Freedom
Christ offers freedom Freedom from striving Trying to earn Hoping to be good enough Freedom from fear of death From crippling guilt From the penalty of eternal separation from God Freedom from despair Hopelessness Condemnation Loneliness Fear Freedom to be who He created us to be. Freedom to love others. Freedom to live a life that honors God. He took the penalty of sin for us He offers His righteousness in exchange for our sin when we believe and have faith in Him. “For freedom Christ has set us free.” Galatians 5:1
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3 Burdens We Lose When We Choose Grace
Grace is loving kindness given with no way to repay, earn, or deserve it. It’s receiving God’s unmerited favor and forgiveness. When perfection reaches down to love helpless sinners. Grace is free and lasts forever. What an incredible, beautiful gift of freedom yet somehow, we keep returning to chains. Grace by its definition can’t be combined with works. The Apostle Paul wrote, “And if it is by grace, then it is no longer by works. Otherwise, grace would no longer be grace” (Romans 11:6). He also reminds us, “I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!” (Galatians 2:21). Jesus died for us because we could never obtain freedom from sin on our own. We’re powerless apart from Him. Scripture teaches, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” (Galatians 5:1). Three burdens God’s grace frees us from: The burden of slavery to the law There are 613 laws in the Old Testament. Jewish leaders added many more leaving people drowning in detailed law. Obeying the well-known ten commandments is impossible. Who will never covet another’s belongings or put anything or anyone before God? What about always keeping the Sabbath day holy? We might easily avoid murder or adultery but Jesus took it further when He taught, “Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (Matthew 5:28). He also revealed that hating another person is like committing murder (Matthew 5:21-22). Jesus wanted to make it clear no one can keep the law. He came to set us free from this impossible task. Some are able to live more righteously than others. One might live an evil life, committing violent acts while another gives their life to serve those in need. The person who demonstrates more kindness might think this earns her a ticket to heaven. The problem is the standard for living in God’s presence in heaven is perfection. Scripture instructs us in James 2:10, “For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.” During the Apostle Paul’s ministry to the early church, he continually fought the lie that Gentiles must obey the Jewish law to become a Christian. He explained in Galatians 2:16, “Know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the law, because by the works of the law no one will be justified.” Jesus came to set us free from the law’s immense weight! He promised, “Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me... for My yoke is easy and My burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30). The burden of being “good enough” How good is “good enough?” How do you know if you’ve earned favor with God? Sometimes, God uses me to bless someone either through words I write, giving encouragement, or offering help. In those moments, I may fleetingly feel virtuous. But other times ugliness comes out of my heart: jealousy, pride, disdain, deceit, and other offenses. Then I know how weak I am. I can only live a godly life as I rely on Christ in me. It’s impossible to reach heaven through obedience. We may as well try to fly to the moon in a hot air balloon. The Bible teaches, “There is no one righteous, not even one” (Romans 3:10). Jesus once stated, “No one is good—except God alone” (Luke 18:19). On my best day, when I’m seeking Jesus and have spent time praying and yielding my heart to Him, I still struggle with pride, impatience, and selfishness. To overcome these faults, I must rely on His holiness through the power of the Holy Spirit. Jesus came to earth and lived as a human to understand our struggle against sin and died to break its power. Without Him, we remain enslaved. My best intentions and greatest efforts can’t overcome the seed of sin planted when the first man and woman rebelled against God. By being reborn through the power of the Holy Spirit, we can choose righteousness. In God’s great love, He sent His Son to do what we’re incapable of: live a perfect life and pay the price for disobedience. Since sin deserves death, He suffered and died in our place; being fully God, He conquered death and rose as our eternal Savior. He now offers salvation to anyone who believes in Him. Not because we’re deserving but because of His grace and unfailing love. When we trust in Christ and receive His grace, His Spirit dwells in us and enables us to live honorably. When we fail, as we all do, He promises, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). The burden of doubting salvation The denomination I grew up in taught once you believe in Jesus, you’re His forever. But the underlying disclaimer, live by the rules or you probably never truly believed, caused doubt. Therefore, members frequently made multiple professions of faith. I remember one evangelist who proclaimed, “If you’re not leading people to Jesus, you’re not a Christian!” Fear struck my heart. Being shy and reserved, I lacked such boldness. Seeking to prove my Christianity, I made myself go door to door in my neighborhood. I can’t remember what I said but I probably invited them to the revival. My struggles with doubt usually resulted in conversations with Jesus. Wrestling in prayer with Him after the incident where I went door-to-door, a light came on as I thought, “I know Him.” Regardless of what anyone might say, His Spirit lives in me and He’s been there for me since the moment I believed in Him. Salvation comes through a relationship. Christianity is knowing Jesus personally and loving Him. Religion is about performance. Yes, He wants us to follow Him and strive to love as He loves but He’ll never leave us. Jesus promised, “My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of My hand. My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of My Father’s hand. I and the Father are one” (John 10:27-30). God pours out grace on the undeserving. All people rebel against God yet He gives us every day the gifts of sunshine, nature, food, drink, and life. The Bible says He sends rain on the just and unjust (Matthew 5:45). He gave His Son to offer life to anyone who believes. He welcomes all people. And once we belong to Him, we are held in His embrace of love and grace forever. He blesses us not because we’re good but because He loves us. Grace Made Clear One incident in my life made grace real to me. I’ve regularly attended worship service and read my Bible for most of my life but sometime after marriage, my husband and I stopped going to church for a few years. I went days without thinking about God. In my late thirties I’d never been pregnant though I wanted a child. But my husband felt reluctant about being a father, to the point he had a vasectomy. I agreed with my head but not my heart. I stuffed my feelings and thought I could manage. Much later I found out he made that choice because he didn’t think he’d be a “good enough” dad. Eventually I began seeing a counselor who suggested we try alternative conception methods such as artificial insemination. Over time, my husband’s heart had softened and he realized God would give him what he needed to parent well. We decided to take her advice and I went in every month for almost a year. After a year of no success, we decided to stop insemination efforts. I remember praying one day and asking God to show me what I should do or to change my desires. A few days before Christmas, the doctor we’d been working with called and asked if we’d ever considered adoption. I told him we might though my husband and I hadn’t discussed that option before. His words taught me a lesson in grace: “There’s a baby boy who was born yesterday who’s available if you’re interested.” What?! Twenty-two hours later I held our son in my arms. I’d been “doing” the least for God I’d ever done and suffered from a choice we made, yet He gave us a miraculous opportunity to adopt. I felt the full meaning of grace more at that moment than ever before. I realized then and know now, God’s love for me isn’t dependent on my behavior. He simply loves me. Completely, without reservations. No ifs or buts. Our son is now grown and married and one of the greatest blessings we’ve experienced. He provides a picture of what God’s grace is like. And my husband has been the best dad anyone could have. God’s gift to us also brought me back to serve Him but with joy and not because I feel obligated. God’s Heart Grace reveals God’s heart and character. From the moment He decided to create mankind in His own image, He planned to redeem us. He didn’t want children who were programmed to love and serve Him. He wanted us to willingly come to Him in faith trusting His goodness. He also knew that giving us the choice to rebel meant allowing corruption into the world. Sin destroys whatever it touches. We only have to look around us to see the results of disobedience: pain, chaos, suffering, wickedness, and death. God couldn’t allow evil to enter heaven or for sinful mankind to live forever. We faced death and eternal separation from our Father. But God unfolded His majestic plan. His perfect Son, Jesus Christ, would come to earth as a man, fully God yet fully human, live the perfect life required for salvation, choose to pay the price for our rebellion and as God, overcome death. When Jesus rose again, He made it possible for anyone who believes in Him to receive the gift of eternal life. He offers His righteousness in exchange for our sin. Grace says anyone who calls on His name will be saved (Romans 10:13). God’s heart cries out to us all: Believe in My Son. Receive My love. Come to Me, My beloved child. Published at iBelieve.com
Every Day is New
Many people make New Year's resolutions, set goals, and hope for change. But too often we soon fall short and feel discouraged. We seem to think change has to come with the new year. But, the truth is: Every day is a new beginning. Each morning God offers a fresh start. God continually invites us to choose life, hope, and peace. He calls us to forget what is behind and press toward the future. (Philippians 3:13;Isaiah 43:18-19) His compassions are new every morning. (Lamentations 3:22-23) His love never fails. (Psalm 36:7) Thank You Father for continually cleansing and refreshing my heart. Thank You that every moment is an opportunity to choose love. We need not be discouraged when we make mistakes, fall behind, or miss our goals. His grace is limitless.
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Feeling Exposed? How Christ’s Light Illuminates Our Deepest Places
Discouragement clouds my soul when unloving thoughts seem like the default in my heart. Jealousy rises up: often prompted by social media posts. When selfishness plagues me, pride is always waiting. There are moments as a teacher when I’m shocked at my impatient or rude response to a student when I’m in a stressful situation. A friend gleefully shares on Facebook about their current victory, and sometimes my first reaction is envy or resentment and I choose not to give a “like.” An opportunity to serve or meet with other believers is open, but I want to keep my evenings free for television or comfort. Guilt over my weakness pulls me down. I want to be the loving, kind, patient, giving woman Scripture teaches about but I often fail. How liberating when I learned: Seeing the yuck in our lives, means we’re in God’s presence. Jesus illuminates the dirt in our hearts so we can repent. Feeling remorse for our failings is good. Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” (John 8:12, NIV). Jesus has all power over evil and overcomes our wrongdoing. As long as we keep our eyes on Him, He will show us the way and reveal all that needs to be cleansed. Evil seeks the shadows in order to hide wickedness (John 3:19). Those who stay there are blind and often numb to conviction. Darkness can’t exist unless light leaves. We don’t turn on darkness; we turn off or from the light. We have night because the earth moves away from the sun not because its illumination is swallowed. Light has all power over darkness. Darkness hides. Light reveals. C. S. Lewis, one of the most well-known Christian writers, wrote, “It is when we notice the dirt that God is most present in us: it is the very sign of His presence.” This truth encourages me. Instead of choosing discouragement, denial, or escape when conviction comes, I run to Jesus, yielding to the Holy Spirit as He fills and guides me. He always forgives. I rejoice that He reveals my sin rather than leaving me blind to my own faults. The one who can’t see where they’re wrong can’t repent. Change comes from awareness of our faults. We’ll never reach moral perfection on earth. Until the day we enter heaven, we’ll battle daily with our weaknesses. But we can learn to move forward by listening to God’s leading and following and obeying Him. When I’m convicted of behavior that grieves God, instead of rejecting myself, I submit to Him. I confess and agree with His truth, receive His forgiveness, and ask Him to help me yield to His Spirit. When I’m surrendered to Him, He produces His fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control through me (Galatians 5:22-23). Jesus, help me stay in the light. Thank You that I belong to You and You live in me. Thank You for revealing all in me needing to be cleaned up or restored. I want to live in Your truth by walking in repentance and grace. Help me yield to Your Spirit so You can produce good fruit in my life. When discouragement comes or I’m tempted to give up and hide from the truth, help me resist and accept Your unconditional love as I keep moving forward. I know You love me and nothing can ever take that away. What is God revealing about your life today? Write a prayer of confession and give all your struggles to Him. How can you yield to the Holy Spirit? Published first at Wholly Loved.com
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Jesus Came to Set Us Free
Jesus is the only answer.
Only He can set us free from hatred, anger, and injustice.
Only His Spirit can change a heart.
Shine Your Light Jesus.
Into every heart.
Into every dark corner.
Change my heart.
May I love as You have loved me.
We All Need Grace
“God doesn’t want us to live enslaved to insecurity, futility, defeat or fear. Christ died to set us free, and the deeper we anchor ourselves in grace, the more we experience Christ’s freedom.
Thanks to Christ’s death and resurrection, we don’t have to stress, strive, or perform. We simply need to rest in what Christ has already done. That is when we begin to come alive; to live as He intended. That’s when we experience true and lasting freedom.
This sixty-day devotional helps women reflect on God’s grace and the freedom of living deeply anchored in Him.
This Mother’s Day, start a new tradition of reading and discussing devotions together.
Buy a copy for yourself and gift one for your mom or a woman you’d love to see
grounded firmly in God’s love and grace.” Wholly Loved Ministries
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